But that Bones-woman is making me crazy. They are totally going for "grumpy but brilliant woman you have to love because she is so grumpy and brilliant"

Honestly I got more "I`m a robot" from her. And I couldn`t even say if that`s more due to the writing or the actress.

She is like the Star Trek characters who discover humanity for the first time, like Data or the Holodoc. Which made sense for them but not so much for a thirtysomething? woman who lived her whole life among normal people.
Bluntness and being tactless like House on purpose is one thing but she seems genuinely confused by normal human behaviour and reactions.